Meghan Markle says friends warned her British tabloids will ‘destroy your life’

Meghan Markle says friends warned her British tabloids will ‘destroy your life’

Meghan Markle has said her British friends warned her against marrying Prince Harry, telling her the UK tabloids “will destroy your life”.

The Duchess of Sussex made the revelation in an ITV documentary, filmed while the couple were on an official visit to southern Africa earlier this month, which aired last night.

While on tour, Markle filed a lawsuit against the Mail on Sunday over its publication of a private letter she had sent to her estranged father. The paper has said it will “vigorously” defend the case.

Alongside his wife’s legal action, the Duke issued an emotional statement attacking “bullying” tabloid behaviour and describing his wife as “one of the latest victims of a British tabloid press”.

Prince Harry is also separately suing the Sun and the Mirror news groups over allegations of phone hacking dating back to the early 2000s.

Markle told ITV’s Tom Bradby in an interview for documentary Harry and Meghan: An African Journey that her first year as a member of the British royal family had been “hard”.

The US-born former actress said she had tried to cope with the pressures of her new life, since marrying Prince Harry in May 2018, by putting on a “stiff upper lip” but said she was not prepared for the intensity of tabloid interest.

She told ITV: “I don’t think anybody could understand that, but in all fairness I had no idea, which probably sounds difficult to understand … but when I first met my now-husband my friends were really happy because I was so happy, but my British friends said to me, ‘I’m sure he’s great but you shouldn’t do it because the British tabloids will destroy your life’.”

Markle, 38, said that, as an American, she “very naively” thought this did not make any sense, adding: “I’m not in tabloids. I didn’t get it, so it’s been complicated.”

The couple have faced mounting criticism after reportedly taking four private jet journeys in 11 days this summer, rather than opting for commercial flights, despite speaking out on environmental issues.

Singer Sir Elton John said he provided the couple and their baby son Archie with a private flight to “maintain a high level of much-needed protection”. He also hit back at what he called “these relentless and untrue assassinations on their character”.

During the couple’s tour, Brady also asked Markle if she could continue to cope with the pressure and what would happen if she could not.

She told him: “In all honesty I have said for a long time to H – that is what I call him – it’s not enough to just survive something, that’s not the point of life.

“You have got to thrive. You have got to feel happy, and I think I really tried to adopt this British sensibility of a stiff upper lip.

“I tried, I really tried, but I think what that does internally is probably really damaging, and the biggest thing that I know is that I never thought this would be easy but I thought it would be fair, and that is the part that is hard to reconcile but (I) just take each day as it comes.”

Bradby pointed out that her position of privilege, wealth and fame comes with scrutiny.

Markle responded: “When people are saying things that are just untrue, and they are being told they are untrue but they are allowed to still say them, I don’t know anybody in the world who would feel that’s OK and that is different from just scrutiny.

“I think the grass is always greener. You have no idea. It is really hard to understand what it’s like.

“The good thing is that I have got my baby and I have got my husband and they are the best.”

The Duke and Duchess of Sussex won an apology and correction from the Sun newspaper last month after it wrongly claimed they had banned staff from using a car park because it overlooked their home.

Additional reporting by PA.

Picture: Reuters/Siphiwe Sibeko



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